An Absurdly Easy Negotiating Trick
Negotiations become difficult (or even impossible) when one or both parties view the negotiation as a conflict between two positions, where the person who abandons his position is the "loser" and the person who sticks to his position is the "winner."
This is especially true in sales negotiations where a customer may be afraid of experiencing buyer's remorse if they don't bargain you down to an absurdly low price.
However, it's surprisingly easy to avoid this situation, according to Bob Nicols, author of 'The Journey to Sales Transformation." Rather than let the positions harden, strip them from emotional attachments by making the issue objective rather than subjective.
To do this, you say something like: "Let's put that issue on the table and see if, between the two of us, we can't figure out a creative way to get what we both want."
This way of thinking puts both parties on the same "team" working on the same problem, rather than adversaries working against each other.
Try it! It works!
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GEOFFREY JAMES | Columnist
Geoffrey James was recently named a "Top 40 Social Selling Marketing Master" by Forbes, and his blog has won awards from the Society of American Business Editors and the American Society of Business Publication Editors. His writing has appeared in publications as diverse as Wired, Brandweek, and Men's Health, and he is the author of numerous books, including The Tao of Programming, Business Wisdom of the Electronic Elite, and, most recently, Business Without the Bullsh*t: 49 Secrets and Shortcuts You Need to Know.