Anger is one of the most powerful, yet misunderstood emotions. Unfortunately, the misconceptions about anger lead to a lot of dysfunctional behavior. Here are seven myths about anger that need to be debunked:

1. Anger is a negative emotion.

It's not bad to feel angry. Anger is a normal, healthy emotion. In fact, a lot of really good things stem from anger.

Many social injustices were addressed by people who became angry. What if Martin Luther King, Jr. never felt angry? Angry feelings can lead to positive change.

2. Anger is the same thing as aggression.

A lot of people confuse angry feelings and aggressive behavior. While feeling angry is healthy, aggressive behavior isn't. There are many healthy ways to deal with anger that don't resort to threats or violence.

3. Anger management doesn't work.

When people lack skills to manage their anger, their emotions can cause problems in all areas of their lives. Many relationship troubles, career issues, and legal problems result from unhealthy expressions of anger.

Anger management classes and therapy can be very powerful tools that help individuals reduce aggressive outbursts. Cognitive-behavioral therapy has been shown to be an effective treatment for anger management issues.

4. Anger is all in your head.

Anger involves more than just your mind. Think about the last time you felt really angry. It's likely that your heart rate increased, your face grew flushed, and your hands shook.

Anger evokes a physiological response, and it's that response that often fuels angry thoughts and aggressive behavior. Learning how to relax your body-and your mind-is key to reducing aggressive outbursts.

5. Venting your anger releases it.

Punching your pillow, trashing the room, or screaming until your heart's content doesn't actually 'release' your pent up rage. In fact, research shows venting your anger actually has the opposite effect. The more you vent, the worse you'll feel.

6. Ignoring your anger makes it go away.

Suppressing your anger isn't healthy either. Smiling to cover up your frustration, denying your angry feelings, or allowing others to treat you poorly in an effort to keep the peace can cause your anger to turn inward. Suppressed anger has been linked to a variety of physical and mental health issues, ranging from hypertension to depression.

7. Men are angrier than women.

Research consistently shows that men and women experience the same amount of anger, they just express it differently. While men are more likely to be aggressive and impulsive in their expressions of anger, women are more likely to use an indirect approach, like cutting someone out of their lives.

Healthy Ways to Deal with Anger

The best way to deal with anger is to find a healthy way to express it. Turning anger into something constructive, such as by creating positive change or by responding assertively, is the best way to cope with angry emotions.

Before you can express your emotions, however, you need to understand how you're feeling. Practice identifying when you feel frustrated, disappointed, or downright angry.

Pay attention to the early warning sings that you're growing angry. Take a time-out from the action to calm down before your anger reaches explosive levels. Go for a walk or do some deep breathing to calm both your body and your mind.

When you're in a calmer state, take steps to actively problem-solve issues and express yourself in a more productive manner. Increasing your emotional intelligence can prevent you from saying and doing things you may later regret.

Published on: Nov 13, 2015
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