Micromanaging from a boss can be worse than nails on chalkboard, driving good employees away because of stress when you need them most. If you've admitted to yourself you do it, which takes bravery and self-awareness on its own, that's half the battle. The other half is actually quitting the behavior.
1. Take a second look at recruiting, hiring and training.
Micromanaging often has a root in bringing someone into the company who wasn't the best fit in terms of culture or skills. That can cause the worker to clash with you or have trouble following protocols or policies, which in turn might make you feel like you have to watch the employee like a hawk. Review how you describe positions and what you require of your recruiters to see if you can't find more ideal candidates. Once you've hired, make sure that workers have access to resources they need to learn and complete the tasks you expect.
2. Keep your schedule full.
The idea here isn't to work yourself into the ground. Rather, it's to keep yourself just busy enough that you're less tempted to constantly watch over everyone. Try to schedule activities with others for accountability and network expansion, and get yourself out of the office when it's practical.
3. Take a 360 picture of your life and do more self-care.
While some individuals naturally are a little more prone to micromanaging because of their personalities, you might also do it if you feel like there are other areas of your life that you can't control. In this case, micromanaging employees can be a way of trying to find balance and cope with personal stress. Consider making some lifestyle changes that can put you back in the driver's seat outside of the office, and talk with people you trust about what you find challenging.
4. Improve your own skills and creativity.
Micromanaging can be a way to live vicariously--if you don't feel like you have specific competencies or capabilities, you might want to control the people who do so you can feel connected to those positive traits and take credit for their outcomes. Take classes or find other opportunities to affirm your own talents. Always ask yourself whether your requirements satisfy you or whether they satisfy the interests of the business.
5. Improve your communication.
Good communication between you and your employees reassures you that the workers are progressing as you wanted, which alleviates the worry that can prompt you to micromanage. It also builds rapport and trust, which can make you more confident that the workers will follow your directions even when you're not looking over their shoulders. Schedule regular check-ins and establish an open-door policy so your team knows they can come to you. Make sure your operational routines and protocols discourage siloing and allow time for interaction. Lastly, outline clear goals and constraints for each project so there isn't any confusion as you delegate.
6. Get more data.
Just like a lack of control in personal areas of your life can make you tighten your grip on workers, a lack of data can make you scared that you're missing something or will lose out. Instead of keeping tabs on how workers spend every minute, stay focused on the bigger picture. Get other facts and figures that can reassure you that you're on target, or that can give you better insights about what your employees can and can't control. Use that data to evaluate team and company goals and adjust processes or resources on a regular basis.
7. Let workers call you out.
Address the elephant in the room and tell your team outright that you're trying to be better and eliminate the micromanaging habit. Ask them to let you know when they need some breathing space so you can learn about their needs and what typically triggers you to be most watchful. Most employees will be impressed at your willingness to address the fault and just need some reassurance that they won't be punished for pointing out what you're doing.